potty time

It is true, Lucy is getting closer to the potty training time. We haven't really pushed it because well...I am pregnant and we are moving. I feel like potty training requires a little more diligence on our part and we haven't really had that kind of time. So every night before her bath Lucy sits on the potty even though she doesn't do anything. That is about all the consistency we can handle.

Sometimes she asks to use the potty and we let her go then as well. But again, she doesn't do anything except sit there and ask to use the toilet paper. Which is right within her reach I might add. If we aren't paying attention there goes the entire roll.

But tonight ladies and gents after a little bit of coaxing and a little bit of grunting on her part, Lucy peed in the potty. I tried to sound super impressed, and she just kind of shook it off. Maybe just maybe this little happening will allow her to continue, even if we don't do a great job working on it until we are fully moved. Either way, I like all parents was super proud in that moment, even though it might seem like a strange thing to be proud about.

This is picture is totally unrelated, but I thought a visual of Lucy is always nice. Sometime I will talk more about Boxerwood.

The title was to entice you to read. Here is the boring "what's going on in our lives as of right now" part...

In other news VMI classes ended and all I have left are finals. One of my finals is on Tuesday night and the other is on the day of Jimmy's graduation. Needless to say I got someone to proctor the final on Jimmy's graduation, so really I only have to twiddle my thumbs through on exam. Although I then have to grade all of the exams, which to be quite frank, I am not super excited about. Oh well, I guess I must suffer a little bit if my students have to suffer through the final.

In general my thoughts on this semester are a little different than the first, and that mostly has to do with the group of students I had. I also had one less class to teach, which greatly eased some of the stress, although I do miss teaching astronomy. But in terms of the students, I would have to say they were a lot less whiny and a lot more motivated to do well. Last semester I had a bunch of students who thought I should basically given them example problems exactly like the tests and quizzes. This semester I did try to prepare them a little better by letting them know what to study, but I felt that they were a lot more receptive to my suggestions. I guess at some point I will get the evaluations for this last semester and see if it really helped. Either way, I was a lot less stressed.

Jimmy is DONE. I mean D-O-N-E done. All he needs to do is be present for the formal graduation ceremony, which I am sure is not even required. But seriously, he gets a walking stick and it feels foolish to not go when he has been doing this for 3 painful years. And we get to see our family. Lucy has been talking about Grandma Coop all weekend. "Who is coming to visit in a few days Lucy?" to which she replies "Grandma Coop is coming!" We are beyond excited to have parents and grandparents here within the next few days. We love seeing them, first. But second, we have a lot of things to move and they will be a great help!

In terms of this move coming up, I have mixed emotions.I am SOOOOO happy that Jimmy is done with Law School. It is not an exaggeration to say that he did not like Law School. There were parts he enjoyed, but mostly he hated it. It was very emotionally draining for him and therefore difficult for all of us. School is like that sometimes. But at the same time I am pretty sad to leave this area. I really like the friends we have. Our friends from church and the people I have met through employment. They are so generous and caring. I will miss seeing them often. It is difficult to think that after the summer we will not be coming back to see them.

And then I think about how wonderful this summer is going to be, surrounded by family as we welcome another child to our family. A little snuggly(we are really praying for it) baby and lots of people to love Lucy and keep her entertained. That little girl is going to love being around her family. It makes me smile. And then I cringe because I loath packing. Pulling things out and putting things in boxes. I hate the pulling things out part because it makes our apartment a mess and I do not like messes. I am the mother that makes Lucy clean up her one mess before starts another one. Clutter makes me feel trapped. And no, our house is not always clean, we tend to hide the clutter in closets so I don't  go crazy. Unfortunately for Jimmy I become emotion of about packing quite often. Yesterday was a doozy. So basically all I can say is that I am quite bipolar about this moving thing.

But ending on a happy note, I know that we are going to find something perfect for our family and that makes me happy. Even if it takes a little while, I know that we will someday live in a nice area and have a garden. Even if that doesn't happen right away, those are the kind of thoughts that get me through packing and get me through missing this area. Oh change, why are you so difficult sometimes....

But let's not forget change means that little babies turn into big girls that eventually learn how to use the potty. And right now that also brings me a lot of joy.